When you transition from high school to university, it’s easy to assume that academic performance is the sole measure of success. But here’s the truth: university is about so much more than grades. It’s one of the few spaces in your life where you get to grow — not just intellectually, but personally, emotionally, and socially. And most of that growth? It happens outside the lecture hall.

As a student ambassador, society leader, and full-time student, I’ve come to understand just how important it is to engage in university life beyond academics. Let me explain why.

1. University is the training ground for balance

One of the biggest myths we carry from school is that achievement only comes from hard work — and that hard work always means books, libraries, and exams. But university teaches you that balance is the real achievement. When employers ask about your experience, they’re often more interested in whether you can manage your time, build meaningful relationships, and take care of yourself — whilesucceeding in your studies.

Striking that balance is a lifelong skill. If you learn to find it early, you’ll carry it into the workplace and beyond. And university gives you the safe space to try, fail, and try again until you do.

2. You get to discover what you love — or don’t

In your first years of university, you’re not just discovering a course — you’re discovering yourself. Engaging in activities outside of class can help you figure out what lights you up, what drains you, and where you thrive. Whether it’s debating, volunteering, painting, or dancing, trying new things can lead you closer to your niche — or even a whole new passion.

Sometimes, these discoveries come from conversations with people from different backgrounds. When you involve yourself in student societies, events, or campus projects, you meet people who challenge your thinking and expand your worldview. That exposure can shape your career goals, values, or even your sense of identity.

3. Failure becomes your friend

In my first year, I joined the Salsa and Bachata Society — even though I had two left feet. I didn’t join because I wanted to be a dancer professionally, but because I wanted to try something different. I failed a lot. Missed steps, offbeat rhythm, total embarrassment.

But here’s the beauty of it: in those moments, I learned that failure wasn’t something to fear. It was something to embrace. It was a sign I was growing. Outside the classroom, I found spaces where making mistakes was safe, even encouraged. That mindset carried into my studies too — I became less afraid of getting things wrong and more focused on how to get better.

4. It deepens your cultural awareness (and pride)

That same dance society also introduced me to the Hispanic and Latino community. I learned about the origins of the dances, their cultural significance, and their traditions — all through movement and conversation. It made me reflect more on my own culture, too.

Being at a diverse university like Surrey means you’ll constantly find yourself in multicultural spaces. The more you step into those, the more you appreciate other people’s stories and begin to tell your own with pride.

5. You build real, transferable skills

Engaging outside of class helps you build a toolkit of skills — many of which you might not even realise you’re developing. From communication and event planning to leadership, problem-solving, and creativity, these are things employers love to see.

By stepping into new environments where you’re not the expert — whether it’s a society, a gym class, or an art workshop — you show that you’re flexible, curious, and willing to learn. That adaptability is one of the most valuable traits you can have in the workplace today.

6. You never know where one ‘yes’ will lead you

I consider myself a bit of a jack of all trades. I’ve explored broadcasting, crocheting, painting, and fitness — all while studying finance. Some of those started with one casual “I’ll try it once.” Yet now, they’ve become integral parts of my routine and identity.

Saying yes to something outside your course can lead you to places — and people — you never expected. It makes university life fuller, more exciting, and something to genuinely look forward to. It’s how you start romanticising your time here.

University isn’t just about becoming a better student. It’s about becoming a better you. So step outside the lecture hall. Try something new. Fail at something weird. Join that society. Sign up for that open mic. You’ll never regret growing — and that’s exactly what those spaces will help you do.